Is Nature the answer?

[taylovesthebeatles]

Okay I really didn't understand your post, it didn't make sense to me. Sorry. But if you're saying that you don't think women who are interested in or attracted to other women have no value apart from men, I'll have to vehemenenetly disagree with you.

I am bisexual, and I enjoy sex with both men and women. For me personally though, I feel more comfortable in romantic relationships with men. Additionally, my fiance and I are neither financially nor physically ready to bring a child into this world yet, but I don't think that should be a prerequisite for us expressing our love for each other. Also, there are many people, men and women alike, who are biologically unable to produce children through no fault of their own. Should we ostracize them too?

I know from my own experiences that sexual orientation is not a choice, and furthermore, still others have different limitations or circumstances beyond their control that require a different way of life. As these situations are beyond the control of the individual, they should not be treated differently or ostracized by the rest of society. To say that women attracted to other women should not be a part of society is like saying that I don't deserve the same rights and treatment in society as others because of my physical handicap. And that, in my personal opinion, is ludicrous at best, and extremely hurtful and disrespectful.

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Okay I really didn't understand your post, it didn't make sense to me. Sorry. But if you're saying that you don't think women who are interested in or attracted to other women have no value apart from men, I'll have to vehemenenetly disagree with you.

I am bisexual, and I enjoy sex with both men and women. For me personally though, I feel more comfortable in romantic relationships with men. Additionally, my fiance and I are neither financially nor physically ready to bring a child into this world yet, but I don't think that should be a prerequisite for us expressing our love for each other. Also, there are many people, men and women alike, who are biologically unable to produce children through no fault of their own. Should we ostracize them too?

I know from my own experiences that sexual orientation is not a choice, and furthermore, still others have different limitations or circumstances beyond their control that require a different way of life. As these situations are beyond the control of the individual, they should not be treated differently or ostracized by the rest of society. To say that women attracted to other women should not be a part of society is like saying that I don't deserve the same rights and treatment in society as others because of my physical handicap. And that, in my personal opinion, is ludicrous at best, and extremely hurtful and disrespectful.

This gets my vote for the most well written post of all time!

I'd write my thoughts in response to this thread, but I could never top what taylovesthebeatles wrote so I won't waste anybody's time. I agree on every point!

I didn't understand the first post and I am not sure what the intention of making the post actually was.

However, at least it's sparked some passionate discussion!

[PANAMHIEST]

I think this guy has been getting some of that wierd metabolic spicy on his brain from navuta! Just completely way out in left field stuff. *** or no ***, It dont matter to me, I accept everyone for who they are. Even strange dudes, so thanks for the farout post.

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yup but i hope he gets no points for sparking disscussion .... please NDN?!?

these kind of post kill me ..my heart just falls into my feet.... ppl profess they are not haters but then sit and try to justify their hateful thoughts as wonderment (like we are all thinkin the same things) ... WE ARE SO NOT DUDE! ....

don't dwell on this? You so need to dwell on this..... but in the privacy of your own mind .... until you can come to grips that you are intolerant of others and you need to stop thinking that your mind set is the norm (al tho i fear it is in more ppl than i care it to be) ...

PLEASE! take a moment to step back.. really look at the world we all share dude .. and ask why you even think your opinion on the subject is something that is relevant to us or yourself since you've proven your lack of understanding involved for u to speak on the subject..

Tay beautifully put girl.... unlike NDN i just couldnt stop there.. please forgive my outburt!