Why can't your wife go too? I know my husband might want to go just because he might miss out on something. But he is not jealous at all. He couldn't care less what I do, where I go, or who I am with. I am not sure if it is that he trust me or he just don't give a flying f**k. He prob wouldn't notice if he walked in the room and I was setting on someones lap. But either way with him or without him I would go!