Discipline In Poker, Playing Marginal Hands

Over the many years of poker the hardest skill and most important skill in poker is discipline. I find it very hard to not play marginal hands especially when you have not been getting hands.

I have had lots of trouble not playing those tempting K 10 unsuited or J 10 unsuited. I think that those are some of the hands that kill you in the long run.

For example, say you have J 10 and the flop comes up 10 4 6. You know you have top pair so it is very tough to fold. So you will probably call a couple bets and lose to a higher kicker. Those hands hurt you in the end even if you do not lose that much in that single hand. Does any other people have success playing those kinds of hands?

Please let me know your opinions and I'm not the only one who questions these plays and styles of play.

This is something that I have been working on and seeing success with my efforts.

Check it out.. (this is the way that I see it)

- If you have K 10 suited,
Pre-flop you only have K high. Just because it's suited, doesn't mean your going to hit these outs when they are not promised.

Not only that but if you don't hit your suit, you have K high. Now this is when you know how to fold these hands. Lets say Ks 5h 9h and you have K10d's.

Someone bets for the pot for the pre-flop action, you are last to act (best position) you are drawn dead. You have to assume someone has a higher K atleast. The only circumstance to this is if you are in first position, but it's potential for disaster without the right reasoning, before your action.

This happens all the time with the pro's.....................

Just because a hand is suited or what you think usually hits from the hours you put in, doesn't mean that you are the dealer dealing off the bottom of the deck. Remember, position, play, and opponents. Don't ever think, know.

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Originally Posted by bkniefel

This is something that I have been working on and seeing success with my efforts.

Check it out.. (this is the way that I see it)

- If you have K 10 suited,
Pre-flop you only have K high. Just because it's suited, doesn't mean your going to hit these outs when they are not promised.

Not only that but if you don't hit your suit, you have K high. Now this is when you know how to fold these hands. Lets say Ks 5h 9h and you have K10d's.

Someone bets for the pot for the pre-flop action, you are last to act (best position) you are drawn dead. You have to assume someone has a higher K atleast. The only circumstance to this is if you are in first position, but it's potential for disaster without the right reasoning, before your action.

This happens all the time with the pro's.....................

Just because a hand is suited or what you think usually hits from the hours you put in, doesn't mean that you are the dealer dealing off the bottom of the deck. Remember, position, play, and opponents. Don't ever think, know.

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Yes but part of the problem with this is if you are assuming what position you are in. At least in my opinion. Thanks for your advice. I've never looked at it, at just having K high. I will definitely be thinking about it next time.

Another great question pose by Kaci and I hope to have a somewhat good answer. But then again everyone plays bad, EVERYONE We all make mistakes. One idea, commonly used in big bet poker, is to make your opponent think. If you have either AK or 77, you want to be the one who reraises before the flop to get the guy with the other hand to fold, thus winning the dead money in the pot without having to race to the river for a 50/50 showdown. Since we are all dummies, make your opponent think. That is true enough, but beyond that, thinking correctly is what makes winners.

But most people are lazy. They don't want to think. They don't want to do the hard work of out-thinking and out-playing their opponents. They want shortcuts.

I see it all the time on the Internet -- people looking for quick answers to difficult problems. Some people read poker books or magazines to be told "the answer." They want charts, rigid rules, systems, all kinds of things that give them answers. Some people do study to really learn, but many just want to be told. If you don't understand the "why" of a situation, the "what" of what you do, even if it is correct, is at best a road to mediocrity.

Using shortcuts, where somebody else has done the thinking for you, can often bring decent results, especially if that "somebody else" is a top player. A parrot will be a big step up from the clueless players. However, parrots are many steps down from people who try to understand the reasons for doing the right things. Learning to play winning poker is about understanding the reasons, not the actual doing.

I love playing against parrots who use starting hand charts or point count systems. They aren't thinking about the game. They are merely data-entry robots. They are no threat to me, and fortunately not a big threat to the bad players either.

Novices surely may do better in the short-run using charts and systems than just sitting down in a game as a pure virgin, but they have no edge over the virgin in the long-run. Again, it's just like school. Having somebody tell you the answers is just not as good as learning the answers yourself, even if it might be temporarily convenient.

Always having a formulaic, standard way to play to fall back on when you are confronted with a situation you can't figure out (or if it is a coin flip decision) is fine. But you should approach any such rules as crutches. Crutches are not answers to problems. They may be temporarily useful, but players should want to discard them.

The Lao-Tse quote at the beginning of this column brings up a further, even more serious problem for players who rely on these crutches. Especially in Texas Holdem, for which most chart-like things are designed, the majority of the important decision-making takes place after the flop. Post-flop play is where money is made (or lost). Unfortunately for them, chart-happy players find themselves in these pots/situations without much of a clue as to why. Their chart said to three-bet with JJ, and now the flop comes Q97, and their opponent bets. What do they do now? Reach for another chart? On the other hand, if you three-bet for a reason that you understand, the correct line of play is usually pretty apparent. You raised because you know what you want to do when the flop comes Q97 and you are bet into.

If you don't know (or try to know) why you are doing what you do before the flop, how can you expect to know what to do afterwards? Everything in a poker hand is interrelated. Think about what you are doing. Try to understand what you are doing. Don't let somebody else think for you in the beginning of a hand, because they ain't gonna be around later in the hand to tell you what to do