Hi red,, I am so very sorry for your loss and theirs!! it is a shame they cannot experience each other as they grow up,, I guess they are learning a hard lifes lesson at such a young age which is unfortunate. I hope it all works out for them and all the pain of this is in the past for them. but you need to worry about YOU also!! you suffered a tremendous loss and my heart goes out to you and yours!! losing a child is unspeakable but you need to be strong for YOU as well as the ones left behind. be well my friend!!