For both Klink and I I think the answer is the times when we're sensitive and let things get to us and make us upset. The thing is, it manifests itself in different ways- I'll get sad and depressed and start crying, and he'll get loud, angry, and pissed. This causes problems when I'm afraid of suddenly loud things, lol. We've both been really leaning on each other lately though, and I think we've both been able to stay calmer than we used to.

Also, dealing with my parents. That gets annoying, as for the most part, we are not like them at all (cleaning and maintenance wise, though I'm a bit neater than Matt still, as well as just general outlook on life and such).

But the point is, the good times far FAR outweigh the negatives. I've never felt so happy and safe. I know I'm with the person I was meant to spend the rest of my life with no matter what, and that is what I intend to do!