I would like to win the generous offer but,, I find it hard alot of times to instill confidence in myself so doing it for others is easier in some ways and not in others. I generally like to wish people here good luck in there games even though I am not in the BAP or have any stake in it. I think people like to hear it since there being watched by alot of people rather than just a risk of there own money. I think its very easy to tell a little kid you can do it and clap they get all excited and smile even if they suck at a sport or whatever positive reinforcement goes along way. I think as an adult either your confident or your not. 50 people can tell you your a great poker player but if the individual doesnt feel it it wont ever happen. were born alone we die alone and if a person needs others to make them feel worthy then there in for alot of disapointment.