i was gonna say 'rub his nose in it' but I guess that might fall under child abuse...no i think taking them witjh you was the best for me ..but when it came to the boys they needed their dad to help out there..that whole penis thing is greek to me....my boys and i had a 12 foot ppol and i live in the wood so in the pool if they had to pee they would get out onto the deck and pee off the deck ...it was quite pleasurable for them and they made games up too...ok we werte out in the woods no harm no foul and my pool that I shared with them was clean ...