I gwt in them now and then i believe it is simple as registering you are female and register time.,..as for"the men jumping in" ...this happens everywhere ...i think it is more a guy thing then a girl thing....cuz boys drool and girls rule!
And Nav I have no love for this said forum for personal reasons...but what you are doing is wrong....You are as bad as the password theives posters when u use the passwords from those sites...even if the forum is wrong in accusing you ..your joining falsly is wrong...