First of all....ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!!! If you truly love someone you could never hurt them, physically or verbally. True love always has each other's back. True love is unconditional. You love someone for who they are, not as someone you can change. I have a saying...True love is putting the other person's feeling's first. True love there is NO DOUBT! Wake up and smell the coffee. You have one life and it's your's to live, so get busy and stop being some weak *** girlie!!!