Omg.. Only now I readed your first post about your 2 problems.
Now I know why u have being kind of away from the forum. U have lots of problem energy to solve.
Im very sad about what has happend to the brasilian guy. I think That all should have being a big huge mistake. He should never thought about shooting nobody I think. Iven if someone enters your propety I think is wrong shoting first asking after. Anyway. I hope He gets a good lawyer, and a small charge only. About your daugther I think she needs to grow up. Needs to understand life is much harder and better than self mutilation. I mean, I know u are a very intelligent father to show how much u love her, and how much is important to care about the people we live with.
I hope everything is turning out well.
Im sad U really need to sell your property, your cabin. I think would be great for u if u did not needed to sell this. Is always good to have a place to rest. But anyway, U must understand what life has to offer to you.
Dont worry, meditate about the problems and praise also.
I wish u have a great week.
Big fat hug for u and your family.
Andre!