Ringo hit the nail on the head with this one and I think Cherish is the key word. If you appreciate what you have and the choice you made then make it work. Treat each other as you would a best friend and remember what your mother taught you. If you don't have something nice to say then don't say it at all. Never ever call each other names and learn how to talk without yelling, this will be learned very quickly by your daughter. Remember you both made the choice to have each other in your life, this was the choice you both made. Do you still want it? If so make it happen. You have one life, don't waste it being angry. Enjoy life every single day, make a point of laughing and having a smile on your face. Besides, if you smile everyday, chances are you won't have frown lines on your face when you get old. Please try to enjoy your life, make each day count.