This is a very good quality post.
This is what we are here for, to help other members get through life events. We are your friends bouks999. I just realized you were a girl.
I am going to give you an answer to your questions in a little while.
I have alot to say on this subject and I want to think about it longer.
First advice is to be patient and don't over react to his extreme behavior.
You need to be a rock for what I am about to tell you to do.