I don't know your situation so it is really hard to say what I think about it. But from the part I do hear you feel like you are being mistreated in some way as you are down about it. You also sound resentful to me. As I think he handled the lasagna situation very rudely in my opinion. There are much better ways to tell you that maybe it would be a better idea to put food in the frig if we don't plan on eating it right away in the future. Rather than be an *** about it. You sound angry that you have to work and he doesn't I don't blame you but then you say because he has to take your daughter to the hospital. So I can't say that I think he is wrong because I don't know the situation with the hospital. But the truth of the matter is.... That you are really the only one that knows what you "should" do. Sometimes the things that we should do are not always the things that we want to do. And that sucks!