Not that it matters?

[woohoosue]

hey i got to agree with BnLM5.....and add ....hypothetically one can only take from his insistence to go out of town vs staying for more money that there is another reason for going.... like wanting to be gone ..... which would not sit well with this hypothetical wife if it were her.... that said
My husband has been working out of town for our whole marriage threw all the children and all ...it was tuff but when he came home on weekend he really pampered us all... I rarely complained ..life is/was good...
one should soul search very hard before making a decision to leave his family when a plausible alternative exists ... "that dog don't hunt" in other words ...there is something not right here in this story.

[GloBug]

wow this way over my head. this looks like a lady only thread. im not sure where this is comeing from. is this a personal issue hypothetically. i dont know u ladies are way to deep for me.

[twenty47]

there is everything wrong with this story when the "hypothetical dad" talks to his son and says "mom kicked me out" and trying to make my boy hate me. Hypothetically I asked him to stay and be a part of the boys life, not mine as my life wouldn't be nice with him but the boy LOVES him. anyway, hypothetically I'm changing everything he'd know about me and I'm gonna act on my woman's intuition and move on, which "hypothetically" i've already done. I just wanted things to be more civil and not stupid. fighting got tiredsome and forgiving was meaningless. I'm sorry was not even spoken after awhile, and even if it was it would be like a slap in the face. ty u know who you are and I hope nothing but BAD BEAT after BAD BEAT, HYPOthETICALLY!

[twenty47]

remember when we first met umpteen years ago and i joked around saying this was OUR song, I wish i Knew then what I know now. this was suppose to be our funny wedding song. turns out it's just funny.

[twenty47]

i didn't edit fast enough but here's the link: YouTube - Wasted days, Wasted nights 1975

[eejit101]

Id just move, buy a bar, and get a british guy to own it....

or...

I dunno, my relationship advice sucks

[freeringo]

Lori summed it up very well indeed.
Let's toss the 3rd party talk aside.
You have to follow your heart.
Your ex is your ex and pretending to work things out is a lie to yourself.
The truth is, she has moved on and you need to move on.
The truth will set you free.

[twenty47]

Id just move, buy a bar, and get a british guy to own it....

or...

I dunno, my relationship advice sucks

lol this is the best advice ever..... but first i think i may go out camping this weekend with some buddies, apparently it's a holiday here on monday so my working buddies have a long weekend! YIPPEEEE!