hey i got to agree with BnLM5.....and add ....hypothetically one can only take from his insistence to go out of town vs staying for more money that there is another reason for going.... like wanting to be gone ..... which would not sit well with this hypothetical wife if it were her.... that said
My husband has been working out of town for our whole marriage threw all the children and all ...it was tuff but when he came home on weekend he really pampered us all... I rarely complained ..life is/was good...
one should soul search very hard before making a decision to leave his family when a plausible alternative exists ... "that dog don't hunt" in other words ...there is something not right here in this story.