I'm sure he loves you...my husband has always been a "You're a big girl...do what you wnat" so i so know what u r talking about....even tho he tells me all the time i spend too much time on line he would never ask me to stop... it is just our way.... Ive never asked him to stop anything either.... we all know the rules ....so live and do what you want.....life is too short to sit at a table on your 20th reunion from HS because he doesnt want to mingle and you don't want to leave him there.....saw so much of that.... people were all"oh Im so sorry your husband couldnt make it" and Im like" hes not and Im not...where's the bar?"