Thing is, the people who are getting in trouble because of Facebook/Myspace or whatever are the ones who are dumb enough to post compromising pictures or information. That's really it. A boss isn't going to find anything unprofessional about you that isn't there. And yes your friends could be guilty of posting that kind of thing on their profiles about you, but that's still kind of your problem because that's a reflection on the kind of company you choose to keep. I'm not saying that it's not ok to get drunk and party or anything because I do it just like a lot of other people. I'm just saying be smart about what you let other people know about you, and you'll be fine

It's simple, really. And I kind of agree with maxpower on the whole Kelly thing, as I know what it's like to be hopeful about something that you really want to work out that really isn't the best idea for you. But the romantic in me still hopes this turns out well

. The rest of me doesn't really think it's anyone else's business who marries who for what reason.