Moral Question (regarding women)

[navuta]

I wont often ask something this.... personal, but i figured id get some perspective from a bunch of weirdos (you guys)

Background - I have a "girlfriend", kinda, she is 21, lives with parents, doesnt drive, is fun, blah blah blah

Issue - She has a 3 year old daughter. Im probably being a c***,
but this worries me. I dont like kids much, unless im related to them. Having a kid means attention, so going out with someone who has one means you cant really be "alone with them" or whatever you wanna call it, untill after the kid goes to bed. Plus its alot more work int he daytime or whatever, and my head hurts from random crying fits.

Is it shallow if this bothers me?

Thoughts?

I dont think thats a big problem or issue... The biggest problem here is if u start loving this kid, than u will be mad when u both break up... I like kids and once I was living with a girls who had 40 years old (can u belive) and she had 4 four... thats right 4 kids... 3 lived with us.. was a little wird.. like being a father of 3 kids thats wasent mine...
After wile I got used to it and it was iven fun to have people around.. but i like kids...lol... iven if they had 15 13 and 5 respetivly... so.. I think u can enjoy your self with this kid... I hope u can...
Teach her how to play poker.. when she makes 5 yers and she can be a pro when reachs her teens...

I THINK U CAN REALLY ENJOY HER PRESENCE>>>> JUST RELAX AND ENJOY THE SHOW!!!!

[taylovesthebeatles]

I dont think thats a big problem or issue... The biggest problem here is if u start loving this kid, than u will be mad when u both break up... I like kids and once I was living with a girls who had 40 years old (can u belive) and she had 4 four... thats right 4 kids... 3 lived with us.. was a little wird.. like being a father of 3 kids thats wasent mine...
After wile I got used to it and it was iven fun to have people around.. but i like kids...lol... iven if they had 15 13 and 5 respetivly... so.. I think u can enjoy your self with this kid... I hope u can...
Teach her how to play poker.. when she makes 5 yers and she can be a pro when reachs her teens...

I THINK U CAN REALLY ENJOY HER PRESENCE>>>> JUST RELAX AND ENJOY THE SHOW!!!!

I kind of agree with navuta here, if it works out you should teach the kid to play poker! lol but if you're not really a kid person then I think it's ok to rethink this. As a woman I won't think you're a dick for doing so if you decide to leave cause of the kid. Neither of you should be made to feel like a third wheel.