Well, if shes 21 got a kid and lives with her parents, and youre debating it... she must be a smoke show... so kudos EEj. Most guys, (and we're talking american gusy here) would not care about the kid, and brag to their friend about nailing a single mother. However that sounds, 23 yr old males across the pond... thats how it goes... sadly.

Damn right ur getting a headache from this stuff though.... youre seeing a girl with a KID. Kids are annoying, regardless of how much u may love em or whatever, i certainly wouldnt get down on yourself for being annoyed at a kids crying fit.
Honestly though, if you have any withstanding remissions about it, then it prolly aint right. Sometime u just know you should fold a hand, all signs point to it, and whatever temptation or want you have to call, you know its just better to muck the hand, before u get in too deep.... mmmmm... u getting what im saying :-p Its an analogy. LOL.

Love a pic though, cause as i said, with all that extra stuff, she must really be something for you not to bail immediately. But i think ringos advice is the best out there :-p