Quote Originally Posted by eejit101 View Post
I wont often ask something this.... personal, but i figured id get some perspective from a bunch of weirdos (you guys)

Background - I have a "girlfriend", kinda, she is 21, lives with parents, doesnt drive, is fun, blah blah blah

Issue - She has a 3 year old daughter. Im probably being a c***,
but this worries me. I dont like kids much, unless im related to them. Having a kid means attention, so going out with someone who has one means you cant really be "alone with them" or whatever you wanna call it, untill after the kid goes to bed. Plus its alot more work int he daytime or whatever, and my head hurts from random crying fits.

Is it shallow if this bothers me?

Thoughts?

well eejit from me to you it is a normal feeling to have when u react the way you do. its not shallow its u being out of your comfort zone. u know sometimes u got to get outside the box to experience new things. this could be a good thing. the way i look at it is how u feel for the girl not the kid. if the kid is really gonna put a damper on the relationship then u should break it off b4 it gets serious. dont drag her along for nothing. kids are great though. crying fits are the part of the game. all parents have to deal with it. lol i am dealing with it right now as i type. but it doesnt bother me anymore i know shes fed and shes clean. u know women like are always gonna have this problem with her being a single mom with a young child and meeting men is always tough. i say if u really like her then try it out the crying fits will go away all will be great. take your time and think about what u are gonna do b4 u react. u gotta think she has heard this b4. well keep us updated on how it goes.