Moral Question (regarding women)

[freeringo]

Run for the hills

[Pokerkitty6]

No, it's not shallow that it bothers you. You're being honest with yourself and you should. She is a package deal and there is no other way around it. I have used a phrase in my life which has worked for me every time, "when in doubt don't". Not all people have a desire to be parents. My husband and I tried to have children for years and I never got pregnant- took all the test and everything, so now when I need a kid-fix I get one or more of my neices and nephews. We're up to approx. 32 neices and nephews, ages range from newborn to 20. I tell ya ej...I'm glad I don't have any kids. I hear all my brothers and sisters and I say sucks to be you (in a joking way). Tony and I have the freedom to do whatever we want and its a beatiful thing. Like I say not everyone needs to breed. I love kids, trust me, I luv them. I'm around them ALOT, but at the same time, I'm glad I don't have any.

[eejit101]

Kaci - Why the double spaces? Reading that sucks.

Ive known this gir for a bit, but not long enough to plan anything. taking it as it comes.

And how can basing something on looks be shallow? Thats the first thing you see. You can honestly say youd go out with someone hideous if they had a personality of gold? I couldnt. Attractiveness is important. Youve got to look at them and feel lucky. Or at least a bit lucky

Kitty - Thanks.

Im full of doubt. But i always am. Its 50/50.

[Pokerkitty6]

When in doubt....don't

[eejit101]

Yeah, but if you lived like that youd never have any fun.

[PANAMHIEST]

Kaci - Why the double spaces? Reading that sucks.

Ive known this gir for a bit, but not long enough to plan anything. taking it as it comes.

And how can basing something on looks be shallow? Thats the first thing you see. You can honestly say youd go out with someone hideous if they had a personality of gold? I couldnt. Attractiveness is important. Youve got to look at them and feel lucky. Or at least a bit lucky

Kitty - Thanks.

Im full of doubt. But i always am. Its 50/50.

very true, I dont think that beauty is all there is to it, but it is an important factor.

[KaciBlakely]

Kaci - Why the double spaces? Reading that sucks.

Ive known this gir for a bit, but not long enough to plan anything. taking it as it comes.

And how can basing something on looks be shallow? Thats the first thing you see. You can honestly say youd go out with someone hideous if they had a personality of gold? I couldnt. Attractiveness is important. Youve got to look at them and feel lucky. Or at least a bit lucky

Kitty - Thanks.

Im full of doubt. But i always am. Its 50/50.

Was watching a movie on one side of the screen and doing ndn stuff on the other side.

Sorry about that, I've noticed on some other people's post and haven't had an issue so I assume that they were doing the same as my computer automatically went to that setting when I minimized it, in minimized everything else too.

You just focused on that bit too, I said a lot more things that just that.

Hmmm.

Okay well I'm going back to finish my movie.

Enjoy the rest of your evenings.

[0maxpower0]

Well, if shes 21 got a kid and lives with her parents, and youre debating it... she must be a smoke show... so kudos EEj. Most guys, (and we're talking american gusy here) would not care about the kid, and brag to their friend about nailing a single mother. However that sounds, 23 yr old males across the pond... thats how it goes... sadly.

Damn right ur getting a headache from this stuff though.... youre seeing a girl with a KID. Kids are annoying, regardless of how much u may love em or whatever, i certainly wouldnt get down on yourself for being annoyed at a kids crying fit.
Honestly though, if you have any withstanding remissions about it, then it prolly aint right. Sometime u just know you should fold a hand, all signs point to it, and whatever temptation or want you have to call, you know its just better to muck the hand, before u get in too deep.... mmmmm... u getting what im saying :-p Its an analogy. LOL.

Love a pic though, cause as i said, with all that extra stuff, she must really be something for you not to bail immediately. But i think ringos advice is the best out there :-p

[eejit101]

Were goin out saturday, and just for you, as she looks hot as hell when its saturday night, ill get you a pic. Ill be in it tho:( lol

And im not stupid enough to get attached yet. Dont that before, not good!

[targetguy1]

if you truly fall for this girl then the kid wont be a problem. yes it might suck

for you but that is just one of things that comes with this girl. if its meant

to be then it will all work out for you. please we want pics.

[0maxpower0]

Were goin out saturday, and just for you, as she looks hot as hell when its saturday night, ill get you a pic. Ill be in it tho:( lol

And im not stupid enough to get attached yet. Dont that before, not good!

Yea Eej, my man! Damn right u better be in it, or i wouldnt believe ya :-p.
If shes a blonde with blue eyes and a thick british accent, u found my perfect woman eeej, and i am completely jealous