A Sad Moment!

[woohoosue]

kaci im so sorry to hear this...I hope things have settled down for u and youve made yourself as comfortable at home as u can.... yup making decessions pregnant is scarey cuz you are not always sure you are thinking clearly.... but to be angry and making them is doubly worse ...so take your time.... dont worry about putting him on a time table ..your heart will let you know what kind of limits he can place on you... thinking of the baby and yourself is what u need to be doing.... all the advice so far sounds real sound.... kudos to your parents for stepping up ..you got some good ones make sure they know it......
I would do just as u are doing ....let him do what he is gonna do.... you can not make anyone want you....
I'm sure it is like Glo said....he's confused ...that is no excuse ..but it is an indicator of his character... so keep this in mind when dealing with him.
He too will be getting lots of advice and let's hope that he and you too .... be as honest as you can with each other about the way you want things to be.... it sounds like this maybe hios first time being honest about how he feels ... better to know now thatn later ...and you two can find away to love and care for this baby seperately or together .... so dont let that sway you into being with him if it turns out that is not meant to be....
hey the cubs just went into first in their league today .... if they can do it there is hope for so many things...
You have to look at it this way ...you were lucky enuf to be a woman .... half your battle to happiness is taken care of .. men are a mess ....
ok stay strong!

[KaciBlakely]

kaci im so sorry to hear this...I hope things have settled down for u and youve made yourself as comfortable at home as u can.... yup making decessions pregnant is scarey cuz you are not always sure you are thinking clearly.... but to be angry and making them is doubly worse ...so take your time.... dont worry about putting him on a time table ..your heart will let you know what kind of limits he can place on you... thinking of the baby and yourself is what u need to be doing.... all the advice so far sounds real sound.... kudos to your parents for stepping up ..you got some good ones make sure they know it......
I would do just as u are doing ....let him do what he is gonna do.... you can not make anyone want you....
I'm sure it is like Glo said....he's confused ...that is no excuse ..but it is an indicator of his character... so keep this in mind when dealing with him.
He too will be getting lots of advice and let's hope that he and you too .... be as honest as you can with each other about the way you want things to be.... it sounds like this maybe hios first time being honest about how he feels ... better to know now thatn later ...and you two can find away to love and care for this baby seperately or together .... so dont let that sway you into being with him if it turns out that is not meant to be....
hey the cubs just went into first in their league today .... if they can do it there is hope for so many things...
You have to look at it this way ...you were lucky enuf to be a woman .... half your battle to happiness is taken care of .. men are a mess ....
ok stay strong!

Thanks sue!

I appreciate your kind words.

I'm at home with my parents, while I'm on maternity leave from work.

Apparently I was forced to leave the workplace by my doctor and employees so I just get online and do nothing all day long.

I love doing cross word puzzles to pass my time though.

I'm taking my time making decisions.

I believe he is going to not be in the baby's life though.

That's his choice but I won't deny him a chance to see his son.

I don't hate him that much.

And it's not fair for our son to shut his father out of his life.

At least in my opinion, I don't think it'd be fair to either one of them.

And I will be staying strong but thank you guys very much for the kind thoughts and regards.