no im serious. i agree with u about the forum. its great here. it gives u a outside look into situations that u might have. like getting a 3rd opinion from a doctor. as for this thread. you know i have mixed feelings about what happened to you. i understand both sides. its tough i know but all of it will work out in the end. so hey when are u gonna post a pic of u. i think now is a good time as any. since i think u trust us now.