A Sad Moment!

[GloBug]

wow what a shocker. u know i dont know to much about u and him but from what i see and hear is that he really wasnt ready. ill be honest when me and my wife had our 1st child i was just turning 24 and she was 22. it was really rough on me when it got within 1 month of having the child. i mean all my freedoms would be gone and so on. i did alot of bad things(not physical im not a monster) such as cause arguements in hopes that she would leave and all that. she never did. i was a bad person and didnt like it. well i chalk it up to not maturing when i was suppose to. but after we had our 1st child that night my wife and daughter got my full and undivided attention. i was in love all over again. the love u feel for a child when it is 1 st born is the best. im not sure if your hubby had some alterior motives but he is human and he is young from what i get. dont hate him for him wanting to separate. he will come back. he is just stressed out. im telling u i know its hard for a women but for a man that doesnt carry the baby we have alot of time to think and our minds plays tricks on us. maybe he is having doubts about being a good father. u know i did. i beleive most men at a young age have this issue. well i will put a hex on him and get him back to you. u should take advantage of any free help u can get. as for the wic and food stamps. hey food stamps comes now as a visa so u dont have to be embarressed. i suggest u have custody done thru a court whent he baby is born. as for your name u can change it send a pm to ndn and he will fix it for u. keep your head and remember u have your family and sometimes that is the best remedy. take care and be easy.

[KaciBlakely]

Well the door is still open for him.

I'm not giving up on him yet.

I love him and am just realizing that he might not be here, for our child.

Which breaks my heart, but I have to do what's best for my unborn son.

And that's to make sure both of us are taken care of.

And to figure his father out later.

I'll give him up to until my son turns 1 to make up his decision and if he's out, than he is going to be out.

I've talked to many people and they seem to think, 14 months from now is enough time for him to make up his mind.

I'm not gonna feel sorry for him, if 5 years from now, he changes his mind.

Well I don't think I will, but I'm typing this and I'm hormonal so I might change my mind.

I'm just greatful I have the support of my family and my ndn family.

[GloBug]

well lady u have the best interest in yourself and your child so thats all that counts. my mom raised me as a single mother and i think i turned out good. im not sure if things will turn out the way they are suppose to be when u have a child but i guarantee u will be better off by yoursellf then to be around someone that isnt happy. good for u. and hormones will end when u have the child. there are other things that u might have issues with but u will have a clear head. u think u and him made a good decsion because unhappiness a baby can sense. u would be amazed. keep strong girlfriend.

[BnLM5]

Well the door is still open for him.

I'm not giving up on him yet.

I love him and am just realizing that he might not be here, for our child.

Which breaks my heart, but I have to do what's best for my unborn son.

And that's to make sure both of us are taken care of.

And to figure his father out later.

I'll give him up to until my son turns 1 to make up his decision and if he's out, than he is going to be out.

I've talked to many people and they seem to think, 14 months from now is enough time for him to make up his mind.

I'm not gonna feel sorry for him, if 5 years from now, he changes his mind.

Well I don't think I will, but I'm typing this and I'm hormonal so I might change my mind.

I'm just greatful I have the support of my family and my ndn family.

You know Kaci a lot of things go on around here, some things are nice and some things are not. But the bottom line is that when the going gets tough for any one of us we all stick together. That is the greatest part of our NDN family.

[KaciBlakely]

I agree one hundred percent.

I love NDN for that particular reason.

There are so many things NoDepositNeeded has offered us here, and the last thing I expected to find at this site is the most important thing to me.

I never dreamed of finding a group of people that could be so compassionate and caring about how other people are doing.

I'm glad and truly discovered this for the first time on Kitty's bc thread.

It's great that we could all be apart of something so much bigger than this site was first meant to.

I know we get rewarded through the chip system, but I'd post with or without the system in place because I have grown to care about the members here and I think most people here have too.

[GloBug]

I agree one hundred percent.

I love NDN for that particular reason.

There are so many things NoDepositNeeded has offered us here, and the last thing I expected to find at this site is the most important thing to me.

I never dreamed of finding a group of people that could be so compassionate and caring about how other people are doing.

I'm glad and truly discovered this for the first time on Kitty's bc thread.

It's great that we could all be apart of something so much bigger than this site was first meant to.

I know we get rewarded through the chip system, but I'd post with or without the system in place because I have grown to care about the members here and I think most people here have too.

oh stop it your gonna make me cry.

[KaciBlakely]

oh stop it your gonna make me cry.

I hope it isn't sarcasm.

I really do appreciate the members here.

I'm sure you've grown to appreciate all of us too.

That's why I commented.

And thanks for all the support I have received on this thread.

It's fantastic, and it does make me feel better when I am down during the day.

[GloBug]

I hope it isn't sarcasm.

I really do appreciate the members here.

I'm sure you've grown to appreciate all of us too.

That's why I commented.

And thanks for all the support I have received on this thread.

It's fantastic, and it does make me feel better when I am down during the day.

no im serious. i agree with u about the forum. its great here. it gives u a outside look into situations that u might have. like getting a 3rd opinion from a doctor. as for this thread. you know i have mixed feelings about what happened to you. i understand both sides. its tough i know but all of it will work out in the end. so hey when are u gonna post a pic of u. i think now is a good time as any. since i think u trust us now.