This from coming from the perspective of a guy who just had his very first

child just 8 months ago. When I heard that I would be a father I was scared,

because I knew that this little person, would look up to me the rest of my

life, to provide and take of, feed, give shelter, and to teach. I had never

done this for anyone before, just me and my dog pacho lol. It scared me to

death and I thought about running, leaving the best girl I have ever meet,

and never look back. But I did some thinking and thought about what things

would be like say 3-5 years down the road. Would kylee know about me?

Would she be a good kid? Was she ok, and well takin care of? When she got

old enought o come looking for me, would she even bother? would she love

me like she would have if I had of been there?


These are things that you husband is gonna have to think about, and if he is

too bone- headed to figure it out himself, maybe you or someone you know

can talk some sense into him.