A Sad Moment!

[freeringo]

Apply for W.I.C. now and food stamps.
Don't let him claim your new child on his income taxes.
Take care of #1 and #2 your newborn.

[KaciBlakely]

Apply for W.I.C. now and food stamps.
Don't let him claim your new child on his income taxes.
Take care of #1 and #2 your newborn.

I don't think I'd qualify for WIC or Food stamps.

I have a pretty good job.

And I also have a bit pride to be getting food stamps when other people really need them.

My parents are going to help me out, my dad is an engineer at Bell Helicopter.

So my child and me will have a place to live, and be taken care of.

I just need to think about giving him more time or think about going ahead and getting ready to file for child's support.

[targetguy1]

I don't think I'd qualify for WIC or Food stamps.

I have a pretty good job.

And I also have a bit pride to be getting food stamps when other people really need them.

My parents are going to help me out, my dad is an engineer at Bell Helicopter.

So my child and me will have a place to live, and be taken care of.

I just need to think about giving him more time or think about going ahead and getting ready to file for child's support.

you would be surprised about wic. always apply for these services. they are there to help you so why not take advantage and at least apply. i understand your parents are there to help but its still best to use any reasource out there available to you instead of counting on mom and dad. i not saying that as a bad thing but you need to prove to yourself that you can make it with out there help.


my heart goes out to you and your unborn baby. nothing is more sad then a man walking out on his family and throwing the towel. i think its best it happen now rather then down the road. its not going to be any easier on the child but it best for you to try to move on without him.

a few thing that come to mind is he cheating on you? or do your suspect he is? did you see this coming or did this just come out of the blue? and last but not least.....do i still have a chance when i come back to dallas in Sept?? lol sorry had to ask

[KaciBlakely]

I don't think he was cheating.

That is definitely something I can count against, but I have set up an appointment to check everything down there to make sure against, std's, and everything like that, etc.

I don't think I'm ready to hook up with anyone at the moment.

I will be working to apply for these services if I qualify.

I realize you guys are just offering support and help and that's what I need, and I will try to take advantage of your advice.

[PANAMHIEST]

This from coming from the perspective of a guy who just had his very first

child just 8 months ago. When I heard that I would be a father I was scared,

because I knew that this little person, would look up to me the rest of my

life, to provide and take of, feed, give shelter, and to teach. I had never

done this for anyone before, just me and my dog pacho lol. It scared me to

death and I thought about running, leaving the best girl I have ever meet,

and never look back. But I did some thinking and thought about what things

would be like say 3-5 years down the road. Would kylee know about me?

Would she be a good kid? Was she ok, and well takin care of? When she got

old enought o come looking for me, would she even bother? would she love

me like she would have if I had of been there?


These are things that you husband is gonna have to think about, and if he is

too bone- headed to figure it out himself, maybe you or someone you know

can talk some sense into him.

[thenutzaa1]

sorry to hear this kaci...

i am only 23 years old so i dont know a lot about marriage or parenting but hey feel better. everything happens for a reason. thenutzaa1

[KaciBlakely]

I beleive that everything happens for a reason.

And although I will allow myself to be sad about the situation I'm not going to cry any more tears over him after a week or two.

I think it's okay for me to mourn the loss of my marriage, etc.

But only to an extent.