A Sad Moment!

[KaciBlakely]

Right now I don't want to grow fonder of him, but I know that is the anger in me talking.

I just never expected this to happen.

Couple fight all the time, but it doesn't mean one of them just walks out for good during said fight.

At least that's my view of things.

[Lilred36]

I'm sorry Kaci,I hope you are alright.A child is a blessing,and you do seem like a good person as far as I can tell.He doesn't know the joy he will be missing,"99.9% of the time" and if he's not commited to the child, this is just my opion now, you and the child will be better off without him,in the long run.Stay strong keep your goals in mind and know that your parents will love and cherish that child probally more than you.If there is anything more special than a child I haven't never seen it.Good luck girl.

[freeringo]

Apply for W.I.C. now and food stamps.
Don't let him claim your new child on his income taxes.
Take care of #1 and #2 your newborn.

[KaciBlakely]

Apply for W.I.C. now and food stamps.
Don't let him claim your new child on his income taxes.
Take care of #1 and #2 your newborn.

I don't think I'd qualify for WIC or Food stamps.

I have a pretty good job.

And I also have a bit pride to be getting food stamps when other people really need them.

My parents are going to help me out, my dad is an engineer at Bell Helicopter.

So my child and me will have a place to live, and be taken care of.

I just need to think about giving him more time or think about going ahead and getting ready to file for child's support.

[targetguy1]

I don't think I'd qualify for WIC or Food stamps.

I have a pretty good job.

And I also have a bit pride to be getting food stamps when other people really need them.

My parents are going to help me out, my dad is an engineer at Bell Helicopter.

So my child and me will have a place to live, and be taken care of.

I just need to think about giving him more time or think about going ahead and getting ready to file for child's support.

you would be surprised about wic. always apply for these services. they are there to help you so why not take advantage and at least apply. i understand your parents are there to help but its still best to use any reasource out there available to you instead of counting on mom and dad. i not saying that as a bad thing but you need to prove to yourself that you can make it with out there help.


my heart goes out to you and your unborn baby. nothing is more sad then a man walking out on his family and throwing the towel. i think its best it happen now rather then down the road. its not going to be any easier on the child but it best for you to try to move on without him.

a few thing that come to mind is he cheating on you? or do your suspect he is? did you see this coming or did this just come out of the blue? and last but not least.....do i still have a chance when i come back to dallas in Sept?? lol sorry had to ask

[KaciBlakely]

I don't think he was cheating.

That is definitely something I can count against, but I have set up an appointment to check everything down there to make sure against, std's, and everything like that, etc.

I don't think I'm ready to hook up with anyone at the moment.

I will be working to apply for these services if I qualify.

I realize you guys are just offering support and help and that's what I need, and I will try to take advantage of your advice.

[PANAMHIEST]

This from coming from the perspective of a guy who just had his very first

child just 8 months ago. When I heard that I would be a father I was scared,

because I knew that this little person, would look up to me the rest of my

life, to provide and take of, feed, give shelter, and to teach. I had never

done this for anyone before, just me and my dog pacho lol. It scared me to

death and I thought about running, leaving the best girl I have ever meet,

and never look back. But I did some thinking and thought about what things

would be like say 3-5 years down the road. Would kylee know about me?

Would she be a good kid? Was she ok, and well takin care of? When she got

old enought o come looking for me, would she even bother? would she love

me like she would have if I had of been there?


These are things that you husband is gonna have to think about, and if he is

too bone- headed to figure it out himself, maybe you or someone you know

can talk some sense into him.

[KaciBlakely]

I'm sorry Kaci,I hope you are alright.A child is a blessing,and you do seem like a good person as far as I can tell.He doesn't know the joy he will be missing,"99.9% of the time" and if he's not commited to the child, this is just my opion now, you and the child will be better off without him,in the long run.Stay strong keep your goals in mind and know that your parents will love and cherish that child probally more than you.If there is anything more special than a child I haven't never seen it.Good luck girl.

Thank you very much Lilred!

I know I am blessed with this child, and hopefully he will come home and grow up.

I'm mad at him but I love him to death.

I married him after all so I can bash him a bit for doing this but not a whole lot because it may sound stupid but I still want him to come back to us.

[navuta]

Tell him if he dosent come back home, he will never know what is to be really loved...


And that the police state will always be behind him... he cant run away from his son.... this is not legal...
not nice...
not pretty...


This is evil......

Im sad for u....

I hope everything turns out well for u!!!!

[Pokerkitty6]

I agree with Bn...don't make any decisions yet on anything. You need time to process and besides your hormones are going crazy right now. You are going to be mentally and physically tired so save your energy for that and don't waste it on him. He is probably going crazy right now too. You both are probably having alot of the same feelings. Don't say or do anything you might regret. Put your feet up, breath in some fresh air and focus on your game tonight. Bring it like you did last night, I know that will make you feel better.
Take some time for yourself. I wish you the best with all your upcoming decisions.