Quote Originally Posted by KaciBlakely View Post
Does it make me a bad person for not wanting my son to have his last name at the moment?

It'd be unfair to him, but I'd tell him someday.

I just don't want him to think it was okay what he did, when he grows up.
When we are hurt and angry,

we do things like lashing out

at what ever it is that has caused the pain.

It is normal not bad.

But if you would consider some good advice,

from me? I would say don't make any hasty decisions

right now. As a matter of a fact don't make any

decisions at all until you have a clear head.

These things (separation and such) always get

a lot worse before they get better. Keeping that

in mind, know that being positive is the best thing for all of you.

Especially for you and the baby. As they say kill em with kindness.

Finally the thing no body likes to hear. Give it some time...

Time heals pain.. It sucks waiting, but it is true.

Nonetheless it is said that "absence makes the heart grow fonder."