A Sad Moment!

[freeringo]

He's a moron.
First, for letting one of the good people go.
Second, you being a wimp of a man
Third, for ruining his life with child support

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

Why the F___ did he marry you if he didn't want a family?
What's he going to do now?
Go play the field again and get someone else pregnant.
He has to realize that the best option he has going for him is sticking it out with you and his baby.


If you still love him, have him contact me and I will talk some sense into him.

People can change and a baby will change a man like he never imagined possible.

Keep your door cracked open, he might come crawling back like a puppy dog.
If he does, tell him like it is and he has to convince you of his devotion and committment.
We will find you a good man Kaci, if all else fails.

[KaciBlakely]

Does it make me a bad person for not wanting my son to have his last name at the moment?

It'd be unfair to him, but I'd tell him someday.

I just don't want him to think it was okay what he did, when he grows up.

[BnLM5]

Does it make me a bad person for not wanting my son to have his last name at the moment?

It'd be unfair to him, but I'd tell him someday.

I just don't want him to think it was okay what he did, when he grows up.

When we are hurt and angry,

we do things like lashing out

at what ever it is that has caused the pain.

It is normal not bad.

But if you would consider some good advice,

from me? I would say don't make any hasty decisions

right now. As a matter of a fact don't make any

decisions at all until you have a clear head.

These things (separation and such) always get

a lot worse before they get better. Keeping that

in mind, know that being positive is the best thing for all of you.

Especially for you and the baby. As they say kill em with kindness.

Finally the thing no body likes to hear. Give it some time...

Time heals pain.. It sucks waiting, but it is true.

Nonetheless it is said that "absence makes the heart grow fonder."

[KaciBlakely]

Right now I don't want to grow fonder of him, but I know that is the anger in me talking.

I just never expected this to happen.

Couple fight all the time, but it doesn't mean one of them just walks out for good during said fight.

At least that's my view of things.

[Lilred36]

I'm sorry Kaci,I hope you are alright.A child is a blessing,and you do seem like a good person as far as I can tell.He doesn't know the joy he will be missing,"99.9% of the time" and if he's not commited to the child, this is just my opion now, you and the child will be better off without him,in the long run.Stay strong keep your goals in mind and know that your parents will love and cherish that child probally more than you.If there is anything more special than a child I haven't never seen it.Good luck girl.

[freeringo]

Apply for W.I.C. now and food stamps.
Don't let him claim your new child on his income taxes.
Take care of #1 and #2 your newborn.

[KaciBlakely]

Apply for W.I.C. now and food stamps.
Don't let him claim your new child on his income taxes.
Take care of #1 and #2 your newborn.

I don't think I'd qualify for WIC or Food stamps.

I have a pretty good job.

And I also have a bit pride to be getting food stamps when other people really need them.

My parents are going to help me out, my dad is an engineer at Bell Helicopter.

So my child and me will have a place to live, and be taken care of.

I just need to think about giving him more time or think about going ahead and getting ready to file for child's support.

[KaciBlakely]

I'm sorry Kaci,I hope you are alright.A child is a blessing,and you do seem like a good person as far as I can tell.He doesn't know the joy he will be missing,"99.9% of the time" and if he's not commited to the child, this is just my opion now, you and the child will be better off without him,in the long run.Stay strong keep your goals in mind and know that your parents will love and cherish that child probally more than you.If there is anything more special than a child I haven't never seen it.Good luck girl.

Thank you very much Lilred!

I know I am blessed with this child, and hopefully he will come home and grow up.

I'm mad at him but I love him to death.

I married him after all so I can bash him a bit for doing this but not a whole lot because it may sound stupid but I still want him to come back to us.

[navuta]

Tell him if he dosent come back home, he will never know what is to be really loved...


And that the police state will always be behind him... he cant run away from his son.... this is not legal...
not nice...
not pretty...


This is evil......

Im sad for u....

I hope everything turns out well for u!!!!

[Pokerkitty6]

I agree with Bn...don't make any decisions yet on anything. You need time to process and besides your hormones are going crazy right now. You are going to be mentally and physically tired so save your energy for that and don't waste it on him. He is probably going crazy right now too. You both are probably having alot of the same feelings. Don't say or do anything you might regret. Put your feet up, breath in some fresh air and focus on your game tonight. Bring it like you did last night, I know that will make you feel better.
Take some time for yourself. I wish you the best with all your upcoming decisions.

[navuta]

Tell your husband he is the worst person in the world..
He just cant do this...
Running away from u..
this is mad, he must support you in all ways.

Please ringo call him for real and tell him the real truth about life..
This is not nice at all I think...
I hope U will be fine...If u both cant get toguether again...

At least here u have a big familly!!!