A Sad Moment!

[KaciBlakely]

So I think everyone knows I'm a good person here.

I really hope you guys get a sense of that sense I've been on the forum.

Anyways this is hard for me to admit, but I am saying it because I feel comfortable and hopefully I will be able to get some support from my Ndn family.

My husband and I have decided to separate.

We have already agreed on custody rights.

I don't think he wanted to be a father and everyday I've gotten a bit bigger, I think he just realized how real it was getting.

I wish I would've loved someone else at times, but I know I'm going to be thankful for him to getting me pregnant and blessing me with my child.

It's just hard right now, so if I don't seem the happiest I will be getting better I assure you.

I'm moving in with my parents right now, and all will be well with them.

They are so supportive, but before I start crying over this thread, I'm just going to post it.

Thanks for your support in advance, you ndn family members are great.

[taylovesthebeatles]

I'm sorry to hear that, Kaci. Thank you for confiding in us, and if you need anything, we are here. You and your baby deserve the best, always remember that.

[KaciBlakely]

I'm sorry to hear that, Kaci. Thank you for confiding in us, and if you need anything, we are here. You and your baby deserve the best, always remember that.

That's why I was okay with him walking out, if he doesn't want to be here, I don't want to force him to stay and all of us be unhappy. But hopefully he'll come grow some balls and come back.

I'm a little upset, so pardon the rudeness if you guys felt that last comment was rude.

If not I think we'll be okay with the support of everyone I have.

Is there a way to change my username though, NDN?

[nodepositneeded]

That's why I was okay with him walking out, if he doesn't want to be here, I don't want to force him to stay and all of us be unhappy. But hopefully he'll come grow some balls and come back.

I'm a little upset, so pardon the rudeness if you guys felt that last comment was rude.

If not I think we'll be okay with the support of everyone I have.

Is there a way to change my username though, NDN?

I am sorry to hear about this Kaci.

Yes it is possible to change your username. Send me a private message if you'd like to change it and I will be happy to do so.

[KaciBlakely]

Okay I will be thinking about that very hard.

I probably will though.

[eejit101]

KacilovesEejit

has a ring to tit

[BnLM5]

Aww! Kaci I am so sorry! Every thing is going to work out.

I assure you. It may not seem like it at times but it will.

And just like every thing else, this too shall pass.

Then something else will come along. Rest assured!

BTW, it's a little late for a person (could not bring mysef to say man)

to decide that he doesn't want to be a daddy after all.

I don't know the details (don't need to)

but I do know that he married you..... Well I

prob should just keep my opinion of him to myself.

As my judgment would be bias and unfair.

Maybe after baby boy Blakley is born it will be better.

Keep your chin up and always smile! It does wonders for the soul!

[KaciBlakely]

Aww! Kaci I am so sorry! Every thing is going to work out.

I assure you. It may not seem like it at times but it will.

And just like every thing else, this too shall pass.

Then something else will come along. Rest assured!

BTW, it's a little late for a person (could not bring mysef to say man)

to decide that he doesn't want to be a daddy after all.

I don't know the details (don't need to)

but I do know that he married you..... Well I

prob should just keep my opinion of him to myself.

As my judgment would be bias and unfair.

Maybe after baby boy Blakley is born it will be better.

Keep your chin up and always smile! It does wonders for the soul!

Thank you for being so kind and telling me to keep my chin up.

I'm working on it, and I've been keeping this in for a few weeks.

I figured we were just fighting and he was going to get over it and we would make up but it didn't end that way.

It still has a chance though maybe.

I'm just sad about it not lasting, and right now I don't even want my son to have that last name.

[freeringo]

He's a moron.
First, for letting one of the good people go.
Second, you being a wimp of a man
Third, for ruining his life with child support

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

Why the F___ did he marry you if he didn't want a family?
What's he going to do now?
Go play the field again and get someone else pregnant.
He has to realize that the best option he has going for him is sticking it out with you and his baby.


If you still love him, have him contact me and I will talk some sense into him.

People can change and a baby will change a man like he never imagined possible.

Keep your door cracked open, he might come crawling back like a puppy dog.
If he does, tell him like it is and he has to convince you of his devotion and committment.
We will find you a good man Kaci, if all else fails.

[KaciBlakely]

Does it make me a bad person for not wanting my son to have his last name at the moment?

It'd be unfair to him, but I'd tell him someday.

I just don't want him to think it was okay what he did, when he grows up.

[BnLM5]

Does it make me a bad person for not wanting my son to have his last name at the moment?

It'd be unfair to him, but I'd tell him someday.

I just don't want him to think it was okay what he did, when he grows up.

When we are hurt and angry,

we do things like lashing out

at what ever it is that has caused the pain.

It is normal not bad.

But if you would consider some good advice,

from me? I would say don't make any hasty decisions

right now. As a matter of a fact don't make any

decisions at all until you have a clear head.

These things (separation and such) always get

a lot worse before they get better. Keeping that

in mind, know that being positive is the best thing for all of you.

Especially for you and the baby. As they say kill em with kindness.

Finally the thing no body likes to hear. Give it some time...

Time heals pain.. It sucks waiting, but it is true.

Nonetheless it is said that "absence makes the heart grow fonder."

[KaciBlakely]

Right now I don't want to grow fonder of him, but I know that is the anger in me talking.

I just never expected this to happen.

Couple fight all the time, but it doesn't mean one of them just walks out for good during said fight.

At least that's my view of things.

[Lilred36]

I'm sorry Kaci,I hope you are alright.A child is a blessing,and you do seem like a good person as far as I can tell.He doesn't know the joy he will be missing,"99.9% of the time" and if he's not commited to the child, this is just my opion now, you and the child will be better off without him,in the long run.Stay strong keep your goals in mind and know that your parents will love and cherish that child probally more than you.If there is anything more special than a child I haven't never seen it.Good luck girl.

[navuta]

Tell your husband he is the worst person in the world..
He just cant do this...
Running away from u..
this is mad, he must support you in all ways.

Please ringo call him for real and tell him the real truth about life..
This is not nice at all I think...
I hope U will be fine...If u both cant get toguether again...

At least here u have a big familly!!!