Here is my opinion....

First of all the whole thing is not so hush hush

now, as it has been posted on the world wide internet.

But since it is going to be a back room chip thing and

it is not on the up and up to begin with what the heck

difference does it make if the dealer is of age. Breaking

the one law is no different than the other. On the outside

people will see that it is not a real money game anyway

so it is ok for a person underage to deal the cards.

You said, your sister found the job first, right? But what I don't quite

understand is if it all happened so casually, why are your mom and sister

upset with you in the first place?

You have a job as an editor. You are pregnant and should not

be on your feet breathing second hand smoke for hours on end

in the first place. I say let your sister have the card dealing job. And if she

needs a day off hear and there let her and the owner know

that you are willing to fill in. But that having given it some thought

and discussing it over with your husband and friends, that you have

decided that it would not be in your best interest at this time to put

yourself and baby boy Blakley dealing cards at a poker table in the back

room of a bar.

Just my opinion!