Plain and simple, what the bar is doing is illegal, that's why they are keeping it quiet. Cash can never be paid out period. They risk losing their liquor license and everyone else takes the risk of being arrested. All staff, including poker dealer would be arrested on the spot. All it would take is one raid and many people would go down with the ship. The only clubs that can pay cash is private clubs like the American Legion, the Elks, etc. Thats why their drinks are so cheap because you have to be a member to drink or play there. They have a private club liquor license. If I remember correctly, you are the one who is pregnant...picture this in the paper...pregnant poker dealer arrested at local bar...please be careful, don't let this happen to you. As far as your sister, she's not old enough period. There is no sense in screwing up your life for something that doesn't have to happen. Just something to think about....