So the Cops Got Invovled

[targetguy1]

well not much i can do considering he is twice my size and would kill me with a few punch to the face. the dude crazy in the head trust me. he sees no problem with hitting girls

[Pokerkitty6]

In my family there are 5 boys and 5 girls, from one mother and two fathers. We're "supposed" to be all adults, not. Brothers and sisters will continue to fight their whole life. Some mental, some physical. My husband tends to let us fight it out among ourselves. With so many people in my family there is constant drama and fighting. I would suggest to let another brother handle him if there is one. My brother and sister had a similar situation, both drunk, both hit, he ended up in jail, she dropped charges, now they get along fine until the next time. If one of my brothers or sisters do something I don't like, I give myself space from them. This way I don't get upset. I don't allow anyone to get me upset if I can, blood or not. Our age ranges from 20 to 43, so you can see how many attitudes I have to deal with and thats not even counting husbands, wives, boyfriends, and girlfriends. My advise to you, do not let him on your property for a while, watch your back, and have no fear of calling the police. Keep a copy of the police report in case you do need them again, the police officer on duty may make a better decision when he see's this report. Don't respond to him at all, including his phone calls. Take a break from all the family for a while.

[BnLM5]

I agree with Pokerkitty completely. No questions asked. Time will fix it. It always does.

[targetguy1]

i agree with thw whole brother sister thing but still the fact of hitting your

sister with a laptop computer is over board dont you think. i mean we are

supposed to let that go and give it time. people like that to me have a

problem and need to be locked up or in a nut house.

[BnLM5]

Well what else, I mean you said if you try to whip up on him he is gonna kick your you know what. The cops were already there. So what else can you do but let some time pass. Unless you want to go fight and take a chance on going to jail yourself and getting you butt whipped. Unfortunately that sucks but it's true about the jail part. The other part you should always remember that dynomite comes in small packages.

[targetguy1]

Well what else, I mean you said if you try to whip up on him he is gonna kick your you know what. The cops were already there. So what else can you do but let some time pass. Unless you want to go fight and take a chance on going to jail yourself and getting you butt whipped. Unfortunately that sucks but it's true about the jail part. The other part you should always remember that dynomite comes in small packages.

well what is done is done so now its the waiting game and jsut hope nothing

bad happens. i aint going to go do anything stupid to get myself in trouble.

[Sassy12U]

This is true. Don't let your emotions get tangled in with what her brother is doing or how crazy he may be in the head. All I know is that if that were to happen to me and my dad was around.. things would go down.. lol haha including the boy..

But ride it out. If I were your fiance I wouldn't see you any differently. I think you're doing the right thing and being a real man. (This is what every woman wants) I hope everything works out okay. Make sure you take notice to what I said about the courts and your computer. I know that the judge will not be a moron, well hopefully. Good luck sweetie!