Be well-hydrated. Drink some water. Dry mouth, sticky kisses are not pleasant.

*Take it slow. There’s no race to the finish line, even if you are thinking about the next step, take your time with the kissing. Be in the moment.

*Start with the lips. Please. They are just as important, if not more important than the tongue.

*Start with a little tongue. If you read the comments I got yesterday, most women are not fans of the Dagger Tongue Assault. Keep your tongue relaxed; it’s not a weapon, but it shouldn’t floppy either.

*Pay attentionto your partner. Is your guy/girl looking like they are into it or do they look panicked? Back off and reassess the situation. Adjust your technique.