When i was 18 i was face with this choice. This girl and I were dating and

knocking the boots like most couples do. Well one thing lead to another and

there was a baby on the way. After about 2 months we broke up and that

left us the decison on what to do with the baby. She didnt want it and i was

to inmature to rasie a child plus the fact i was living off my dad at the time.

So we were faced with what to do. My dad said he was going to help me

out at all since he already help my to older brother out in the past. I

thought that was a ****y thing to say but i understand respect his desicon at

the same time. She wanted to have abortion. To make a long story short

we go in touch with this adoption place and they found a family for us that

was willing to have a open adoption. After spending 4 months hanging out

with the family and getting to now them we all thought this was the pefect

match. Time came and the baby was born and the family let the biological

mother and I spend time with child first. I tell you it hurts giving up that

child but at the same time i was so proud of the choice the mom and I made

not to abort the child. Just the joy we were able to bring to that couple was

priceless. Just think none of that joy would of been shared if we aborted

that child. Every child has a special place with someone, it just finding that

right someone. Sorry for rambling on but i felt like sharing more story with

you guys.