but if it is on your belly than it still yourself..
I think if you are not alowed to kill your self, than u should not be alowed to make abortion...true..
Anyway..
Im with the freedoo of Autanasia and abortion...
Free to be you...lol..
but if it is on your belly than it still yourself..
I think if you are not alowed to kill your self, than u should not be alowed to make abortion...true..
Anyway..
Im with the freedoo of Autanasia and abortion...
Free to be you...lol..
Navuta take a look at this site. It explains a fetus/baby from the first day of conception until it is born. I think you will find it most surprising, if you think that an unborn child is not a separate person while still in the mothers womb.
(Unborn Fetus - Pregnancy Resource Center.)
Abortion is another tough issue, both sides have legitimate arguements, but i think as usual the one arguement reigns supreme; you as an individual, have the right to do anything to your body, as long as your not harming anyone else. Now, I know the arguement will be made that by having an abortion you are harming the child inside you, but if its an unplanned pregnancy or the family is incapable of supporting the child, i think its ultimately for the best. I think one thing that usually goes unsaid, is the toll that abortion plays on the woman. I mean, all these biological changes start to occur in a woman when she becomes pregnant, and even if the "right" thing is done and the fetus is aborted, the physical and emotional toll on the woman is ridiculous. All these biological changes in a womans body stop, and are for a lack of a better word, reversed... That alone can make it difficult for someones to function and be a productive part of society. Depression, ailments, and the like are bound to plague the woman whose body geared up for this baby, just for all the bilogical mechanisms to shut down.
As far as the religious implications go, Im not sure where in the bible it says if whether or not abortion is a sin, im pretty sure they didnt have to worry about it in the early aAD's and such. If anyone is religious and knows of a verse in the bible that sheds light upon it, id love to read it. I havent read the whole bible, but ive certainly purused it, and despite some of the things in it, i think it really has a lot of valid and socially productive points. So ill leave that up to someone else.
This certainly is a touchy subject, and i dont mean to offend, in fact i think getting it out in the open and hearing different logical opinions is the only way to solves the issue. On the one hand if a family isnt prepared for a child, emotionally or financially, then really what else can be done? On the other, if abortion ever becomes... like, a contraceptive; where a woman gets pregnant, says oopsie, and gets the fetus aborted, man if that ever becomes a normal practice, then society has failed. I think it comes down to people taking responsibility for their actions BEFORE negative consequences are felt. I think its as simple as people thinking about the REPURCUSSION OF THEIR ACTIONS. One bad decision can ruin a life or many lives, so in everything you do, weigh the pros and the cons logically, and difficult decisions like this wont ever find a place in your life. Live right, and youll find your life will be right.
When i was 18 i was face with this choice. This girl and I were dating and
knocking the boots like most couples do. Well one thing lead to another and
there was a baby on the way. After about 2 months we broke up and that
left us the decison on what to do with the baby. She didnt want it and i was
to inmature to rasie a child plus the fact i was living off my dad at the time.
So we were faced with what to do. My dad said he was going to help me
out at all since he already help my to older brother out in the past. I
thought that was a ****y thing to say but i understand respect his desicon at
the same time. She wanted to have abortion. To make a long story short
we go in touch with this adoption place and they found a family for us that
was willing to have a open adoption. After spending 4 months hanging out
with the family and getting to now them we all thought this was the pefect
match. Time came and the baby was born and the family let the biological
mother and I spend time with child first. I tell you it hurts giving up that
child but at the same time i was so proud of the choice the mom and I made
not to abort the child. Just the joy we were able to bring to that couple was
priceless. Just think none of that joy would of been shared if we aborted
that child. Every child has a special place with someone, it just finding that
right someone. Sorry for rambling on but i felt like sharing more story with
you guys.
Targetguy, you are a wonderful person. And this story made me cry, for sad and happy reasons. What a difficult and smart decision both of you had to make. I am proud of you too! Thanks for sharing!
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