Im not sure if i am oversimplyfying it, or making a wrong assumption. But is it safe to say that women one the whole are against it, and men on the whole are for it? Its makes sense to me, what with a womans inclination of compassion and nurturing, and a mans inclination for neccessity and providing.

This is quite easily one of those debates where both sides can make very sound arguements.... so in that sense, how can anyone be right or wrong. I think the bread and butter idea here is: each situation would call for something different, so to say one way is right or wrong is just inconsiderate. In some occaisions abortion may be the right thing to do, despite the hardships on the man and woman (particularly the woman... all those biological changes that begin to occur just stop. I dont know from exp, but i can certainly imagine the toll thatd take on a womans body and mind). And in other cases, like targets, if you can find a family, spend time with them to make sure theyre righteous/compassionate or whatever, and can do it with dignity and respect, then it is NOW the right thing to do.

"I dont know whats its like in other countries or in other parts of the usa (and i have a feeling ill make some enemies with this one, but i promise you im not speaking outta spite) but there are some woman who will lie to a man, simply to get pregnant and keep the child, regardles of the fact that they are able. I can safely say that at least 50 of teh 250+ people in my former senior class have a kid in poor circumstance(im 23). I can think of a dozen instances where my friends are dating a girl, the girl LIES about contrceptives, theyre plan the whole to have a kid with anyone, to give their life "meaning" I know it sounds harsh, and im kinda a cynic, but i swear to you, particularly recently, ive been seeing it...
it works out so; the crazy b*tch gets pregnant to give her life value, with a man she really doesnt love. They have the kid, both resenting it and each other, and then the spiral continues. That kid grow up with hate in their heart because their parents never wanted them, and they go out and do the same thing... its an endless cycle..."

Id love to hear other ppls opinions about what im saying ^^ in particular. I have a certain conviction in what im saying, but i very well could be tainted by my experiences, and i want to hear what others have to say about it " ".