I just play on ftp and pokerstars mostly. That's really my solution because the smaller sites don't offer the bigger prizes like full tilt poker or pokerstars for that matter.

If I'm going to play poker I'd like to be able to play almost any stake I want and full tilt and pokerstars have both been good about letting people deposit 10$ on their sites( it's now fully and option on full tilt poker) and they have tables on almost every game (omaha hi, omaha hi/lo, no holdem, limit holdem, variations of stud, and badugi even on pokerstars) that players can play for $0.01/$0.02 limits so even the people that would like to lo-ball but still enjoy the game of paper are allowed.

Also I understand you like the Merge client, which I do as well, and bodog, which I've never played on, but I don't think you took in account a major thing most people consider when playing on a site.

Support team.

Pokerstars has the best support around, in my opinion and full tilt poker is a second to them in that area, 100%. When I signed up to play poker that is one thing I did my research on because I had heard about the Absolute Poker and Ultimate Bet thing and I didn't want that to happen to me.

Now to answer what games I find.

On full tilt poker the best games for me are the limit 1/2 games 6 max tables.
The best cash for me is on pokerstars because the low limits they offer and I will bounce from table to table on there often.