As for me, I have this wonderful technology called DIAL UP internet so my phone never ever rings unless I want it to. Because I am connected to the internet all of the time unless I chose. People have just gave up on trying to call. The just email me now or Call my cell phone which gets NO service where I live so I check the messages at my leisure! I say don't let it drive you nuts turn off the ringer and let the machine get it if it is important or they will talk! Turn up the volume on the recorder and if you like you answer if not don't.
