NO.1 Provide excitement and high adventure at his own address. NO.2 Ask questions about his favorite pastime. NO.3 Listen as he talks about his favorite pastime. NO.4 Admire the same tiger he sees in the mirror. Tact is the ability to see another person as he sees himself. NO.5 Tell him whats bothering you. then don't remind him. Assume he heard you. If he doesen't move after two hours, take his pulse. NO.6 One Saturday morning, serve him breakfast and you in bed [not necessarily in that order]. NO.7 Be available. NO.8 Pray for him. NO.9 Understand his problems. a man must know how much you care before he cares how much you know. NO.10 Appreciation comes in two flavors--thanks and compliments.