well it took a toll in my family like 3 years ago when i was immersed in it. but i learn when to play. i usually play on the late night so that everyone is asleep. i play b4 wife gets home and i make sure the kids are good oing something before i play when i am watching them during the day. as for being anti social we all have our quirks to us. i dont like being in places when i dont know them. i just leave. parties are boring if i dont know anyone.