Hey there Kitty just a thought for you based on another friend's experience with cancer- it's not breast cancer but ovarian but she is still starting chemo too. I don't know how you personally feel about all the chemo side effects and stuff but I know for my friend's mom, she had her daughter shave off all her hair before the chemo started so she wouldn't have to go through the trauma of watching it fall out. You're a really strong woman and I don't know if going through something like that would bother you, but in case you hadn't thought about it I thought I would offer that suggestion out for you. I love you hon!