ok the way i look at it ..... sounds like u need to fly in ..... stay at cabin..... look around see if u like us(US)..... BBQ with glo and lori ....see if you like Lori ..... from there make plans for marriage or go home and fill out paaper work for job you scoped out while here oh and buy a braves hat once you get here you schmuck...start supporting our economy.... i'm ok with u coming here ..... as an imagrant goes we could do worse gl guy US could use another funny guy so bring it