I need some advise

[freeringo]

I am self employed and I know the family quite well.
I was prepared for all this, problem is the daughter is overwhelmed.
Now I have a cold, which is actually helping their family to rally around Bob.
And I have an excuse to do the bare minimum so they don't rely too heavily upon me. The daughter and I talk openly about this and I feel we are on the same page. She is just too emotional at times to talk to on a daily basis.
She is waiting to hear from some agency on how much Bob can get a month for in home support. That will dictate how many hours I can committ to him.
Right now he is paying me out of his pocket.

Thanks everyone for your advice.
I plan on sticking it out till I am no longer needed.

[GloBug]

I am self employed and I know the family quite well.
I was prepared for all this, problem is the daughter is overwhelmed.
Now I have a cold, which is actually helping their family to rally around Bob.
And I have an excuse to do the bare minimum so they don't rely too heavily upon me. The daughter and I talk openly about this and I feel we are on the same page. She is just too emotional at times to talk to on a daily basis.
She is waiting to hear from some agency on how much Bob can get a month for in home support. That will dictate how many hours I can committ to him.
Right now he is paying me out of his pocket.

Thanks everyone for your advice.
I plan on sticking it out till I am no longer needed.

well i am glad u are sticking around. i believe that u are doing a good thing. the family will go thru alot of pain and hardships with him being sick. its human nature. keep up the good work and good things will come to u in the future

[kingsnthahole]

listen, it's not your fault that they have health problems, so dont take it out on yourself if they wont do what is expected, DO NOT take it personally, work is business, and business should not be emotional