well i was taking my son to school one cold december morning and passed this lady walking her three kids to school had a pick-up and didnt have room to stop so i dropped mike off and swung back around and picked up judy and her three kids and gave them a ride to school.that got me an invite for coffee; she had just moved here from nova scotia a couple of days before .that was 12 +years ago and we have been together pretty much every since