Advice needed

[NeverWinHere]

it is not that I am afraid of the guy or anything. I dated him back when I was 17-18 years old. He lost his wife last year, at least that is what my mom told me. It is just there is nothing productive that could come from renewing any sort of friendship etc with him. Even as a teen I could figure out he was lying to me about things, nothing bad but I do not think he could tell the truth if his life depended on it. The worse thing is that he would lie about everyday type of things. He told me he was allergic to beer but I seen him drink it with no effects, lies along that line.

I would just tell him that you are not interested in seeing him, and now sure how you feel about it, but maybe tell him you dont want to talk to him at all, to please move on etc.

If that does not work, then turn on the badazz in you, and get all crazy on him!

[67christine]

I would just tell him that you are not interested in seeing him, and now sure how you feel about it, but maybe tell him you dont want to talk to him at all, to please move on etc.

If that does not work, then turn on the badazz in you, and get all crazy on him!

good idea, i just do not think that anything can be gained by having him as a friend and I would not want him to get the idea that if I talk to him that he stands a chance. I hate to say it but my taste and standards for men have changed over the years and guys I dated when I was a teen (with one exception) I would not give a second look now.

I like the badazz thing. That can be so me somethimes LOL

[BnLM5]

As far as the damage already done "Ignore it/him" he will eventually go away. As for your mom ask her to take the requesting party's info rather than giving out yours and if you please you can contact them.

[sand]

tell him your dating a cop and to bog off

[woohoosue]

tell him your dating a cop and to bog off

ok sand that sounds like first hand information....Did it work on you? did u run?...lol ... all with ove....party on dude

[67christine]

I think that tonight I will email him and just tell him that I am not interested in renewing any sort of contact between us and I want to let sleeping dogs lie. If he keeps it up I will get a bit more forceful with it.

[taylovesthebeatles]

I think that tonight I will email him and just tell him that I am not interested in renewing any sort of contact between us and I want to let sleeping dogs lie. If he keeps it up I will get a bit more forceful with it.

Do that I suppose if you think it's really worth it. Otherwise I just wouldn't respond, if he's normal he'll just eventually get the hint and go away. If you really don't want contact with him or whatever for whatever reason, I wouldn't "give in" to him by giving him a response back, which is what he wants, it sounds like.