Advice needed

[67christine]

that is a really good idea.

[Dallas12]

I would just tell your mother not to give out your presonal info to anyone.First of all she never knows what these people will do with that info. And second she has no right to give out your info. No matter who it is. So I would just tell her to stop giving out your info. And then tell her that you love her but it is not right to do this.

[taylovesthebeatles]

I don't know how much headway you'll make with regards to dealing with your mother because people are difficult to change, but as far as getting rid of the calls/emails that are bothering you right now, maybe have another male answer the phone when this person calls you so that your ex is thrown off by thinking he called the wrong number? Maybe that will stop him from calling. E-mails I think you just have to ignore, unfortunately, unless you want to go to the trouble of changing your email address. You could change your phone number, too, if it gets threatening or something, but I'd try first to have someone of the opposite sex and/or who sounds nothing like you to answer the phone and tell him it's the wrong number. Hope this helps.

[woohoosue]

or practice talking like a man .....this may also deter him thinking how much you have changed....no just kiddin ...but that was pretty funny..

[67christine]

it is not that I am afraid of the guy or anything. I dated him back when I was 17-18 years old. He lost his wife last year, at least that is what my mom told me. It is just there is nothing productive that could come from renewing any sort of friendship etc with him. Even as a teen I could figure out he was lying to me about things, nothing bad but I do not think he could tell the truth if his life depended on it. The worse thing is that he would lie about everyday type of things. He told me he was allergic to beer but I seen him drink it with no effects, lies along that line.

[NeverWinHere]

it is not that I am afraid of the guy or anything. I dated him back when I was 17-18 years old. He lost his wife last year, at least that is what my mom told me. It is just there is nothing productive that could come from renewing any sort of friendship etc with him. Even as a teen I could figure out he was lying to me about things, nothing bad but I do not think he could tell the truth if his life depended on it. The worse thing is that he would lie about everyday type of things. He told me he was allergic to beer but I seen him drink it with no effects, lies along that line.

I would just tell him that you are not interested in seeing him, and now sure how you feel about it, but maybe tell him you dont want to talk to him at all, to please move on etc.

If that does not work, then turn on the badazz in you, and get all crazy on him!

[67christine]

I would just tell him that you are not interested in seeing him, and now sure how you feel about it, but maybe tell him you dont want to talk to him at all, to please move on etc.

If that does not work, then turn on the badazz in you, and get all crazy on him!

good idea, i just do not think that anything can be gained by having him as a friend and I would not want him to get the idea that if I talk to him that he stands a chance. I hate to say it but my taste and standards for men have changed over the years and guys I dated when I was a teen (with one exception) I would not give a second look now.

I like the badazz thing. That can be so me somethimes LOL