Bodog is probably not on the list part because it's owned by a well known crook Calvin Ayre...yet, still, I believe targuetguy is right about Cake poker if you like a small poker site.
Now if you like huge events then obviously nothing will ever beat Pokerstars.
I dislike FTP because their tournaments have smaller fields so you dont get as much for your $ as on stars, and i dislike it more remembering how I would always get full tilted one way or another LOL