
Originally Posted by
jezabela
I think drinking with friends and family is a relaxing time off for Adults - I don't condone teenagers drinking although we have all done it . Most of us got caught some of us never did.
This place is more of a close nit environment so I'd like to share an experience as do with you guys and gals please do with it what you wish ,
I have 5 children one just turned 18 he held his first job got straight A's had a girlfriend ect. we decided to buy him a new truck for his good deeds as long as he kept his insurance and maintenance up.
We did not know that after he left our home at 3:00 one afternoon to go to work that when the clock hit 9pm he would '' stop by to check out a party ''
When he got there 75 teens and 12 Adults were having a bombfire get together . His brother was there our second oldest son who is 17 -
We have a strict curfew for him by midnight on the weekends - So He comes home as normal but leaves his cell phone in his brothers car by accident - We stopped the curfew with the 18 yr old for the AGE factor - needless to say .
We as parents go to bed at around 12:30 thinking all is good We know the oldest will be in after saying good night to the girlfriend and blowing off steam with friends ect ect after a long work week ., I jump online find a late night game but my stomach is killing me -
after an hour the phone rings with someone yelling on the other line - I always say if someone calls my home after 1 am they better be DEAD ..
Well I pick up the phone this child yelling helicopter hospital and something else I couldnt make out . Panicked I woke my husband up the other son said '' chris'' get up - and got no answer - I tried my best to calm everyone down in the house without waking up the other 3 youngest kids - We My husband went white and said this isnt good chris is always home by now I said lets call the hospital as the kid on the phone said helicopter hospital - When I called I asked the lady where do I find out if my son has been in an accident ? she said name please I told her she puts me on hold and transfers me to a CHAPLAIN ...
my heart drops I turned my back to everyone standing in the kitchen as to not see my face - the man said yes he is here and they are working on him now and requested I stay on the phone as to not wreck myself trying to make the 30 min drive .
My son gave 3 teenagers a ride from a lets drink till its gone party that night - thease kids were toasted and chris was doing what anyone offers to do when your friends are too wasted to drive .....
He even stopped once to let some guy not puke in his new truck !!
3 driveways before the first kids house he lost control of his car and knocks out 2 trees and flipped 5 times - Decapitating one child and the heart of the second child had a ripped aorta and not a bone is his body was NOT broken the 3rd child crawled out - Chris his intestines exploded by the force of the motor hitting his chest .
Chris was not drinking he put on his seat belt - After making it out of ICU by a miracle He was told he had killed 2 of his friends - and he was being arrested for vehicular homicide - In my state his charges total to a possibility of 55 yrs in prison .
Had he been drinking there would be no leniency in his sentence in this state - flat LIFE ..
My sons life is over as he awaits trial now there is 2 other children who were only 17 !!!!!!!!! whos lives were taken and 3 out of the 12 Adults at that party were charged with contributing to a minor ... $ 500.00 fine and maybe 30 days ------
So I suppose we all make decisions and we all dont know when it is out time to go but who should take responsibility for us when we drink would be a better poll ... luv to you all and god bless see ya at the tables if I ever get enough chips lol