So the Cops Got Invovled

Alright like i was saying last night before bed. Last night my fiance went to

her parents house. Her older brother is in a lot of debt and he moved in with

her parents to save money and try to get back on his feet. She was over

there and on her cell phone and her brother was being loud and she asked

him to keep down. He gets pissed and take the phone out of her hand and

slams it on the table breaking it.


So she shuts his laptop on him and he snaps on her. He breaks the dinning

room table trying to get to her and when he does he takes his laptop and

starts beating her with it. After about 3 hits her dad finaly justs in. He was

aiming for her head but she turn and had her hand up to block it. Well after

a few mins of yelling she went down the police department and filed a

report. After the cops left her parents house from talking to him he calls us

up and tell us we better hide. This guy is crazy and sees now wrong with

what he did. I glad i was there because i would of got my a$$ kicked pretty

bad sticking up for my women. The dude also has the nerve to say she

broke his laptop and we owe him $900. I think he is crazy and we aint

paying nothing. How can he prove she broke by closing it on him. I mean he

was beating her with it. How do we not know he didnt break it then.


Anyways this really upsets me cuz a man like him should be locked up for a

long time. Anyman that lays his hands on another women shouldnt even get

a chance to breath the same air as me. One day he will get his own and i

hope i am there to enjoy every bit of it.

sounds like my family lol. But seriously, I think, and no im not stcking up for

his stupid actions, he is probably under alot of stress from having to live with

the parents, got no money, they probably always beetching at him to get a

job and move. He may be having some mental issues, and someone should

stick this guy in a clinic for a while, get him on the right track. I hope that

your old lady is ok, and no IMO, she didnt break his laptop, but he did break

her phone. Guys like that are just gonna gt worse if they dont get help in a

treatment center, so unless you wanna round up a few buddies and go rough

him up some just stay away from the guy.

Go kick the crap out of him

BROTHER's I'm glad mine are younger and love me, lol... but my advise is get a bigger buddy of yours to pay him a visit when there's nobody around. Make sure you and your girl are out in public and about his laptop, break the next one he buys.

I second with eejit, that's your duty as a man.

It's wrong that her own brother would do that out of anger and break his parents stuff after his parents taking him in but I think that situation was completely out of hand. I know that if any guy tried to hit me and my dad was around, he would break his arm or neck.

I'm not saying that you are a bad person or anything like that because it is her brother but that seems out of control to me. My dad would not have that in his house.

What made him so upset anyway? (if you don't mind me asking)

With the computer, it should be in the police report what he did and the destruction of the computer right? I'm positive the judge would rule in your favor.

well not much i can do considering he is twice my size and would kill me with a few punch to the face. the dude crazy in the head trust me. he sees no problem with hitting girls

In my family there are 5 boys and 5 girls, from one mother and two fathers. We're "supposed" to be all adults, not. Brothers and sisters will continue to fight their whole life. Some mental, some physical. My husband tends to let us fight it out among ourselves. With so many people in my family there is constant drama and fighting. I would suggest to let another brother handle him if there is one. My brother and sister had a similar situation, both drunk, both hit, he ended up in jail, she dropped charges, now they get along fine until the next time. If one of my brothers or sisters do something I don't like, I give myself space from them. This way I don't get upset. I don't allow anyone to get me upset if I can, blood or not. Our age ranges from 20 to 43, so you can see how many attitudes I have to deal with and thats not even counting husbands, wives, boyfriends, and girlfriends. My advise to you, do not let him on your property for a while, watch your back, and have no fear of calling the police. Keep a copy of the police report in case you do need them again, the police officer on duty may make a better decision when he see's this report. Don't respond to him at all, including his phone calls. Take a break from all the family for a while.

I agree with Pokerkitty completely. No questions asked. Time will fix it. It always does.

i agree with thw whole brother sister thing but still the fact of hitting your

sister with a laptop computer is over board dont you think. i mean we are

supposed to let that go and give it time. people like that to me have a

problem and need to be locked up or in a nut house.

Well what else, I mean you said if you try to whip up on him he is gonna kick your you know what. The cops were already there. So what else can you do but let some time pass. Unless you want to go fight and take a chance on going to jail yourself and getting you butt whipped. Unfortunately that sucks but it's true about the jail part. The other part you should always remember that dynomite comes in small packages.

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Well what else, I mean you said if you try to whip up on him he is gonna kick your you know what. The cops were already there. So what else can you do but let some time pass. Unless you want to go fight and take a chance on going to jail yourself and getting you butt whipped. Unfortunately that sucks but it's true about the jail part. The other part you should always remember that dynomite comes in small packages.

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well what is done is done so now its the waiting game and jsut hope nothing

bad happens. i aint going to go do anything stupid to get myself in trouble.

This is true. Don't let your emotions get tangled in with what her brother is doing or how crazy he may be in the head. All I know is that if that were to happen to me and my dad was around.. things would go down.. lol haha including the boy..

But ride it out. If I were your fiance I wouldn't see you any differently. I think you're doing the right thing and being a real man. (This is what every woman wants) I hope everything works out okay. Make sure you take notice to what I said about the courts and your computer. I know that the judge will not be a moron, well hopefully. Good luck sweetie! :)

I know my Klinkman, he woulda beat the **** out of the guy, no matter how much bigger he was than him. My sympathies to you and your wife, I hope you're both okay!

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Originally Posted by taylovesthebeatles

I know my Klinkman, he woulda beat the **** out of the guy, no matter how much bigger he was than him. My sympathies to you and your wife, I hope you're both okay!

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yeah but if i tired that reality would sink in and i would be eating through a

straw for about 2 years and that is not how i want to live my life.

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Originally Posted by targetguy1

Alright like i was saying last night before bed. Last night my fiance went to

her parents house. Her older brother is in a lot of debt and he moved in with

her parents to save money and try to get back on his feet. She was over

there and on her cell phone and her brother was being loud and she asked

him to keep down. He gets pissed and take the phone out of her hand and

slams it on the table breaking it.


So she shuts his laptop on him and he snaps on her. He breaks the dinning

room table trying to get to her and when he does he takes his laptop and

starts beating her with it. After about 3 hits her dad finaly justs in. He was

aiming for her head but she turn and had her hand up to block it. Well after

a few mins of yelling she went down the police department and filed a

report. After the cops left her parents house from talking to him he calls us

up and tell us we better hide. This guy is crazy and sees now wrong with

what he did. I glad i was there because i would of got my a$$ kicked pretty

bad sticking up for my women. The dude also has the nerve to say she

broke his laptop and we owe him $900. I think he is crazy and we aint

paying nothing. How can he prove she broke by closing it on him. I mean he

was beating her with it. How do we not know he didnt break it then.


Anyways this really upsets me cuz a man like him should be locked up for a

long time. Anyman that lays his hands on another women shouldnt even get

a chance to breath the same air as me. One day he will get his own and i

hope i am there to enjoy every bit of it.

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i think they should of taken him to jail. i dont think a man should ever hit a

woman. its just wrong! if u shut a laptop it aint gonna break. id tell him to

take you to court. and id file charges against him for that threat he said.

then he cant get near yall!

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Originally Posted by *KYLEE'SMOMMY*

i think they should of taken him to jail. i dont think a man should ever hit a

woman. its just wrong! if u shut a laptop it aint gonna break. id tell him to

take you to court. and id file charges against him for that threat he said.

then he cant get near yall!

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well the way the law is in ny its only harrasment due to the fact she was cut

or hurt. she turned her shoulder into it so he wouldnt hit her face. i talked

to her other borther ho was there and he was saying that the other brotehr

was trying to hit her in the face with it. i mean i dont say i wish she was

hurt but i really wish that ahole was locked up. i was talking to my fiance

and this has been going on all her life. he has pulled her over a fence by her

hair when they were younger. i understand they are family but no man should

every every lay their hand on a female no matter what the problem is.

You're right about no man should ever hit a woman. Its a proven fact men are stronger that women and my own personal opinion it the only thing that makes it equal between a man and woman is a gun. I have never been hit by a man and never intend to. Your woman has let this go on for too long and the family has not helped her out. Its up to her to keep her brother out of her life if she feels so threatened. If he does hate her, she does not need to be around him. There is a fine line between love and hate, sanity and insanity. Family or not she needs to take care of herself and make a choice about how she wants and continues to be treated. Have the family come to your house for visits or go there when he is not home. Avoid him at all costs.

Oh wow that is pretty crazy.

:reddevil:...
Thats evil..
I cant imagine grow up humans doing such a thing without drugs on their head... It is just insane..
I would never do such a thing to anyone..
It just dosent make sense at all..
I hope everything turned out well.
:Angel_anim:

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:reddevil:...
Thats evil..
I cant imagine grow up humans doing such a thing without drugs on their head... It is just insane..
I would never do such a thing to anyone..
It just dosent make sense at all..
I hope everything turned out well.
:Angel_anim:

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well i know there wasnt any drugs involed just on crazy person who has no heart at all.

sounds like the whole family is insane. Think should drop her like a bad habit and find a new a girl. :sifone: j/k

Sorry to hear about your delima. :smash:

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Originally Posted by Manhater

sounds like the whole family is insane. Think should drop her like a bad habit and find a new a girl. :sifone: j/k

Sorry to hear about your delima. :smash:

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so are you single and ready to mingle? pm when you want to hook up.

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Originally Posted by targetguy1

Alright like i was saying last night before bed. Last night my fiance went to

her parents house. Her older brother is in a lot of debt and he moved in with

her parents to save money and try to get back on his feet. She was over

there and on her cell phone and her brother was being loud and she asked

him to keep down. He gets pissed and take the phone out of her hand and

slams it on the table breaking it.


So she shuts his laptop on him and he snaps on her. He breaks the dinning

room table trying to get to her and when he does he takes his laptop and

starts beating her with it. After about 3 hits her dad finaly justs in. He was

aiming for her head but she turn and had her hand up to block it. Well after

a few mins of yelling she went down the police department and filed a

report. After the cops left her parents house from talking to him he calls us

up and tell us we better hide. This guy is crazy and sees now wrong with

what he did. I glad i was there because i would of got my a$$ kicked pretty

bad sticking up for my women. The dude also has the nerve to say she

broke his laptop and we owe him $900. I think he is crazy and we aint

paying nothing. How can he prove she broke by closing it on him. I mean he

was beating her with it. How do we not know he didnt break it then.


Anyways this really upsets me cuz a man like him should be locked up for a

long time. Anyman that lays his hands on another women shouldnt even get

a chance to breath the same air as me. One day he will get his own and i

hope i am there to enjoy every bit of it.

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well if i was there that would be the best *** kicking i would have had. i dont care how big or anything when it comes to my wife and kids. yeah he might be crazy but he is talking out his *** when he says u better hide. eh bro ill be honest if he does do what he says just make sure u always lock the doors and dont open the windows and make sure they are locked. keep a phone always near you and always look out to see who is at the door at all times. u got ur life there and what i mean is your family. just be safe and and fall into any traps such as him demeaning u. brush it off. if he attempts to enter your house by force then by own means protect your family. well good luck with it and dont worry i think he is blow smoke up your ***.

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Originally Posted by Manhater

sounds like the whole family is insane. Think should drop her like a bad habit and find a new a girl. :sifone: j/k

Sorry to hear about your delima. :smash:

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are you seriuos . lol well i hope not.

no I'm not serious. lol that's what j/k stands for

just kidding.

haha

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Originally Posted by Manhater

no I'm not serious. lol that's what j/k stands for

just kidding.

haha

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i am serious and you just broke my heart. thanks, you should be proud now